You may know you are in a situation that is not serving you... you are not getting the kind of love, support, and commitment you really desire. But, you may FEAR that this is because either
a) YOU are doing something wrong that is causing the relationship to not work
b) Or believe he is seeking the attention and relationship of other women because YOU are not enough.
BOTH of these are not true.
But because they are deeply rooted fears, beliefs, and traumas... you attract situations that perpetuate this self-belief, and then STAY IN THEM believing that if YOU can just change, just get it right, just be a little bit more feminine, just change a little bit more... then finally the relationship will work.
He will want to stay.
No.
He will never stay.
He has never actually been here.
And he never will be.
It 's not because he doesn't love you. He does.
But if he is not FIGHTING your belief that it is YOUR fault, than he is not taking part in being equally responsible.
He is happy with a dynamic when you blame yourself... because that allows him to not have to evolve.
That allows him to have full access to you...
Your body, your heart, your sexual energy, your power...
Without GIVING what is REQUIRED to support a woman.
He can take from many sources, drain and deplete many...
because he does not know how to be full himself.
If he WANTS the openness,
it is a sign he has not yet figured out how to provide for himself.
He will never provide for you.
He will expect you to provide for him.
He will take, and then be upset that you are upset that you want "more" from him when he has "told" you he cannot give it to you.
But he will keep you there, even though he knows it is hurting you. Or maybe he is turning a blind eye...
Or putting a spiritual twist on it and YOU continue to mistrust your feminine w i s d o m .
Do you want this?
And is this actually sustainable?
Will you be able to survive this for a lifetime?
This is where you get to take responsibility of your life.
And ask yourself, "What part of me is willingly choosing someone and a situation that is not satisfying?"
My love, what is the COST of this in your life?
Your time, your energy, your emotional well-being, your physical health, your childbearing years.... your LIFE.
When you let go of not feeling worthy... when you let go of fearing that you are doing something wrong, the true man of your dreams can actually walk in.
What you finally delete the beliefs that are causing you to feel you cannot have him, you will finally be given him.
This may be your current partner, it is possible...
But the change you seek will not first happen in him, without YOU going through this transformation.
This is because Spirit would not have it so.
If Spirit let it be this way, you would never do the healing that a happy, satisfying life is requiring of you.
JOIN ME for WORHTY [Contained Pt. 2] on Wednesday, October 5th @ 11am PST.
Clear this pattern forever.
Your WORTH is awaiting you.